What to Do After a Breakup

If you have recently broken up with your partner or spouse, and you’re sure it’s for good
then there are certain things you must do and there is one particular ritual that is very effective.

1. Move to a new home or apartment if possible, since the negative energy sticks to all material things.
2. If this is not possible and you stay in the same residence, clear out ALL of your ex-lover’s belongings and personal possessions. This means all clothing, books, files, photos and reminders of a relationship or marriage that no longer holds meaning.
3. Pick a bright, sun shining day with a breeze. Open all the windows and doors and let the wind remove old chi and refresh your home.  Then sprinkle sea salt around the rooms.  See how the energy feels now that you have done all of the above.

A SPECIAL BOAT RITUAL:  If you still feel the energy of your ex, then use the following powerful ritual.

Place in water and don't look back

Make a paper boat that can float on water.  Write the name of your ex-partner or spouse on the boat along with a well-intentioned good-bye wish.  Although you may feel anger and resentment toward this individual, make sure the wish is genuine.  Then place five offerings inside the boat – a small flower, incense stick, a coin, earth and a sprinkling of saffron water.  These represent the five elements and show that you wish this person well in their new life.

Don’t place their picture inside the boat.  Now take it to a river or stream and let it drift away downriver.  Once you have set the boat adrift, DO NOT LOOK BACK.

You have now effectively closed this chapter of your life.  What does the next chapter of your life hold in store for you?  Be positive and move forward with grace and dignity!